Bachelorette party is surely a big deal and planning it takes a lot of effort. There are a lot of organizational aspects you should take care of. Most likely you are a maid of honor planning a wedding for your best friend. And on top of everything else you have her wedding anxiety to deal with and all the bridesmaids. So it is very important that you plan everything in advance to avoid any problems. Here are some tips on how you can make your bachelorette party unforgettable:
Time It Right
You should the timing right. Usually it’s a good idea to throw a bachelorette party about a month prior to the wedding day. It’s close enough to the big day so that you know for sure most of its details but it’s not too close to get the bride all stressed out and let her have some fun.
Set the Bachelorette Party Guest List
While you should keep most of the details a surprise it’s essential that you advise with the bride on the guest list. Don’t invite anyone who is not invited to the wedding itself. If the bride has future sister-in-law invite them too, even if they are not close yet.
Make it About the Bride
It might be hard to decide what the bachelorette party should look like. Not all brides would want a reckless bachelorette party with strippers, alcohol and dirty tasks. Don’t be stereotypical but instead try to focus on what your bride would want. Don’t forget that is her party! Ask her if you are not sure.
Determine Your Bachelorette Party Budget
Remember that you and the bridesmaids are in charge for covering all the bachelorette party fees. Bride doesn’t pay for anything. Talk to the bridesmaids to determine how much all of you are willing to spend on party. And then when you know your budget you can narrow down your options on what kind of party to throw.
Don’t Make it About the Gifts
Not all wedding related activities should be about the wedding. Of course it is fun to watch the bride open her gifts but your guests shouldn’t be required to bring gifts. Talk this detail with everyone before the party.
Send a Save-the-Date
Sending formal invites might be too extra but an email or a text message will be just fine. Include all the important details about the upcoming party like the date, time, place, dress code, theme, budget, etc. It’s also nice to mention the expected evening costs so that everyone can plan their budget ahead. Make sure to send the invitations in advance so that people have enough time to plan coming to the party.
Arrange your Transportation
You will most likely be drinking at the party so no driving for you and the girls. You should think through your transportation arrangements before the party don’t leave till the last moment. Maybe hire a limo, car service or a party bus, it’s totally up to you.
Establish Guidelines for Social Media
Not everyone is comfortable with their every step posted on social media but some people, on the other hand, love showing off on social media. Set some ground rules on what can and can’t be posted during the party.