Congratulations on getting married! You’ve said “yes” and now it’s time to start planning your big day. One of the most important parts of each wedding is the bridesmaids. Those should be your close girlfriends, who have been through a lot with you. They are basically VIPs on your wedding and you should make them feel important. There should be a special way how you will ask your friends to be at your wedding. So how to pop the question to your future ‘maids? Do you want to be creative? Or make it special? Those are some tips for you that you can use for asking bridesmaids THE question.
- Ask bridesmaids with a box of goodies
Buy your girlfriends boxes and fill them with some essential. They should be cute and personal. Add some little things that remind them of you. You can add chocolates, bath bombs, tea, honey, socks, etc.
- Bridesmaid Proposal With a Dinner Date
Invite your future bridesmaids to a formal dinner party. Choose your or their favorite place you only use for special occasions. Or just go to your social place like a pizza place you used to go to when you were kids. The atmosphere for the special question should also be special.
- Fun T-Shirts
You can create a special print and have it printed on the t-shirts you will give out to your future bridesmaids. You can take a lot of cute pictures together wearing the same t-shirts and they will have something to wear for the bachelorette party. It will only cost you like $15.
- Something skincare related
All girls love facial masks, scrubs, facial oils, moisturizing creams or just anything skincare related. So why don’t you give some of those to your future bridesmaids as a little bribe for them to say “yes”. To be a little bit extra you also can buy them a gift certificate to a local spa.
- Snack party
What was your comfort food when you would get together? Did you enjoy Chinese take-out? Or couldn’t live without bags of popcorn? Get your girlfriends together and give them something they would totally love (food related).
- A Box of Necessities
As a bridesmaid, your friend will have certain responsibilities she will need to follow. Once she agrees to be a part of her wedding you can give her a box of things she will need when preparing for the big day. Include things like customized pencils, notebooks, name tags, travel necessities and so on. Depending on your wedding plans those things may vary.
- Special decorations
To “pop the question” you need to have a special atmosphere. Create it yourself be adding balloons, festive decorations, romantic signs, etc. Make it obvious enough what the whole party is about and ask them the question in the most creative manner.
- A Secret Message
Everyone loves surprises and figuring out things when they are not obvious enough. You can order some scratch-off cards and cover your question underneath it.
- With a picture
Put your favorite picture of you in a customized frame. Give it to them while “popping the question”.